Love

When you love someone you want to do anything you can for them.  You want to comfort them and make everything wrong right.  You want all of their pain to go away, and you want all the bad things disappear.  When you love someone you would do anything to make that happen.  You would go to hell and back to ease their pain.  There is one problem with that... it will weaken them.  We are all meant to have trials and pain in our life.  It is the natural order of things.  Without pain and tials we could not exist the same way that we do now.   Frankly there would be no point in living.  We would never get stronger then when we were born, but how doe we love someone and not descend to their level when they are in pain?  How do we not hurt when they hurt?  How do we not desire to fix their problems for them and do all we can to ease their burden?  I am not sure how to do this.  I am not sure this is what needs to be done.  I do know that we need to keep loving them no matter what.  We need to show them that we love them any way we can.  Let them know that we care and that we would do anything for them.  This is not as easily done as said.  We are human.  We make mystakes that are hard to fix.  We cant always be the best for someone else.  There are times that we will do something that needs forgiveness.  Times when we forget how we feel and get angry or mad or annoyed.  After these times are the times that we desire to fix what we have done.  To do more that fix that but to fix everything that they hurt about, but we cant do that.  To try and fix someones problem is to weeken them.  To cause them to see helplessness in themselves.  All we can do is trust the other person, the person we love, to forgive us of our shortcomings and to do what they need to the help themselves.  We need to only love them and be there with them in their dark times.  More than this will drag both down.  I need to show my love at a higher level.  Not at the level where I hurt at there pain but at a level where I will love at there pain.  Show that love can cure all heart ache and all trials.  Love.

I know this blogg is all over the place but I wrote it as it came.